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I want to take this opportunity to thank all the people I met on here that were nice and enjoyed some great "hottalk" with. I have been very open about myself and my lifestyle and have no regrets about that. I love the pleasures of **** and playing around and always have. I have ben fortunate that I have kept much of my looks as I have aged. Almost all here have questioned my age as their first question to me. There was a **** confusion caused by Be Naughty, not intentionally, I am sure. When I joined as a Standard Member to see how I liked this site I posted four photos of myself. Actually three, as one was a close up of my face from a photo of me fully clothed (albeit very revealing). This was a current photo and showed me as I am today. The other two photos were ****/ semi **** above my hips. Of these photos, on (used with my screen name) is from about 10 years ago, the other was over 30 years ago and from a photoshoot I did as a model. That is what I did for quite some time. I was a model for mens magazines and calendars and the like. It was made obvious through these photos and my profile I was the age I said I was. No Problem until the site removed my current shots and left only the old nudies. I am not angry about this, even though I found it a bit confusing that my clothed photo was unacceptable, but my nudity was okay. Be that as it may, it was not a real problem to me. What became the problem was certain members. For whatever reason I was deluged with members wanting to chat. Sometimes as many as 25 to 30 and more at a time. In 4 days of being on here I recieved (and answered over 40 emails. All this was wonderful, I thought. I answered every email and tried to at least acknowledge everyone who hit me up to chat, but with the number of chatters,it was impossible for one person, me, to chat with all at the same time or even with in a session or two online, but I tried. I met some really interesting people and had some great fun. To those I want to thank. I loved it and looked forward to our future chats. My problem arose on the third day after coming to this site. Some members made offers that there was no way I coould or would ever accept. Fly across the country to meet a stranger so he could have **** with me? Another wanted to chat about things I had no interest in at all and would never participate in. My profile clearly stated I was here for chat and sensual "hottalk" and nothing else. I was accused of being a phony, a gay man, one posted comments on my profile that I was a **** and psycho, because I did not respond everytime in a timly fashion as if I only spoke to him and waited for his messages. Others wanted acts and demanded to meet me for ****. Sorry, I don't fly across the country nor do I need to for **** with a stranger. I have no desire to be peed on and defecated on, and I said I did not do phone **** with anyone and gave my reasons which did not seem to be acceptable so they began calling me names and posting comments about me. All that is their perogative, but I came here for some fun chat and meet people of like minds and pleasures, not abuse. When I tried to block or delete these peoples comments and chats, I was directed to **** up and become a member. This I found out I had to do on the day I was going to join as a Platinum member, but to just block some one I had to ****? No thank you. What other problems may lay ahead as a paying member that I can't resolve with out paying to do so or some other complication. For this reason I am leaving this site. I do it with some sadness. I enjoyed the Forum, the blogs and especially the chat with some wonderfully fun and nice people. I posted in the Forum on a variety of subjects. I wanted my first blog on here to be one of my past experiences and I have had many due to my lifestyle and my profession when **** as a **** model and swinger. Instead I am writing a goodbye letter. This could really be a great site for people to meet and have the fun the desire. A few **** tweaks from what I see would cost the site noting and greatly enhance the site, and I believe, make it more secure feeling for women to reply to men on here. I see men complaining about this in a number of places and chats. In the short time I was on here I was becoming leary of replying to or contacting someone. Guys say something to the ladies. A simple "Hi" or "want to f--k?" is not the best way to start a conversation no matter what the main subject may be. Give us something to hang a conversation onto. I would have loved to talk to many of you I am sure, but did not know what you wanted to talk about. Most of us ladies do not bite and want to hear from you. Why do you think we are here?....Oh well, this is getting long and wordy, sorry. I will go now and I wish all of you good fun and hope you find what you are looking for. Luv ya, Laura
Oct. 26, 2008 (14:53)
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MartinC69 27.10.2008, 05:21
I'm very sorry to see you leaving, I really enjoyed the time which we chatted together, would have liked to have chatted some more...
Hope you might change you mind, if you do, drop me a line
xx
coffeeman25912 Blog 17.11.2008, 00:12
im sorry that you wee treated so bad by **** posing as men look at my blog and get in touch and we can chat about whateve you like i will tret you with the respect youdeserve